Tonya Ingram
Tonya Ingram (September 1, 1991 – December 30, 2022) was an American poet, author, speaker, disability activist, and mental health advocate.[1]
Tonya Ingram | |
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Born | September 1, 1991 Cincinnati, Ohio, U.S. |
Died | December 30, 2022 31) | (aged
Occupation | Poet |
Literary movement | slam poetry |
Website | |
tonyaingram |
Ingram died on December 30, 2022, waiting for a kidney transplant.[2]
Life
Education
Ingram was a graduate of New York University and Otis College of Art and Design.
Performance and poetry

Ingram's writing was often about Black feminism and living with Lupus and kidney failure.[3][4]
Ingram performed at the Nuyorican Poets Café,[5] The John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts, and Lexus Verses and Flow's variety show.[6][7]
Her work was featured in the 2021 Madewell "What Are You Made Of? Creatives of Color" campaign,[8] Hallmark's Mahogany Writing Community and card brand,[9][10] MIGA Swimwear,[11] The New York Times,[12] To Write Love on Her Arms,[13][14] and Hello Giggles.[15]

Ingram was the curator of Poetry in Color Live! at Los Angeles County Museum of Art.[16]
Journalism and activism
In addition to poetry, Ingram wrote and contributed to high-profile journalistic pieces on wasted organ donations, the dysfunction of the American healthcare system, the impact of COVID-19 on disabled people, and other disability rights issues.[4][17][18] In 2021, she testified as a patient on the kidney transplant waitlist on a House of Representatives hearing regarding the organ transplant system.[19]
Search for a kidney
Efforts and advocacy
In 2019, at age 27, Ingram posted on Instagram looking for a living person willing to become her kidney-donor. The organ procurement system (OPS) in the United States, run by the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS), as of 2019, failed to recover around 28,000 organs a year. Utilizing journalism, Ingram and writer and organ-recipient, Kendall Ciesemier, asked the government to hold the organizations involved in OPS accountable, believing this would result in Ingram receiving a kidney. Ingram wrote an opinion essay; appeared in a government video; wrote letters to members of the Biden administration, including the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (C.M.S.) administrator Chiquita Brooks-LaSure and the head of the Health Resources and Services Administration, Carole Johnson; worked with members of Congress, including Representative Katie Porter; and even testified before the House Oversight Subcommittee on Economic and Consumer Policy in May 2021. [4][22][23][24][25]
Aftermath
Ingram told the House Oversight Subcommittee on Economic and Consumer Policy that she would die without the federal government's urgent action. A year and a half later, on Dec. 30, 2022, Ingram died of complications from kidney failure.[22]
In 2022, Ingram was one of 12,000 people on waiting lists who died or became too sick to receive a transplant.[26]
Ingram's friend and fellow journalist, Kendall Ciesemier, commented on future potential for intervention in the organ procurement system by the American government: [22][27]
"The solution already has bipartisan support and would be both cost-saving and lifesaving. The C.M.S. has projected that holding these government contractors accountable would save more than 7,000 lives a year — translating to $1 billion saved in forgone dialysis. If the 28,000 organs that go to waste each year were recovered and transplanted, the wait for livers and lungs could disappear within just two years...
Sometimes I wonder if the problem doesn't get solved because so many of the heroic advocates who square off against executives and their lobbyists have disappeared in sickness or in death. As someone born into illness, I've seen many of my young, sick friends die. It's always horrible, but Tonya's death was preventable. She was the victim of a broken system, a system she tried so hard to change. Before too many others follow, Congress needs to hold the Biden administration to the bipartisan recommendations of the Senate Finance Committee: publish critical data, break up the national organ monopoly and replace the O.P.O.s whose failures hold patients' lives hostage.
Tonya did her part. Now it's on the Biden administration to finish the job."
Death
Ingram was found unresponsive during a wellness check at her apartment around noon on December 30, 2022. Her death was announced in an Instagram post on New Year's Day.[20]
An article from the Los Angeles Times states, "Ingram was on the kidney donor wait list for three years. In an interview, [Matthew "Cuban"] Hernandez said he believed her death was preventable."[20]
Hernandez and his wife Alyesha Wise were close friends of Ingram's and raised $30,000 for funeral arrangements and to build a trust to send Ingram's 15-year-old younger sister to college.[28]
With the money, they honored Ingram's wish to have a green burial underneath a tree.[20] The ceremony to bury her occurred on the grounds of Hollywood Forever Cemetery under a California Oak on January 27, 2023.[29]
In an episode of the podcast, "So Life Wants You Dead", Ingram stated, "I do not invite death, but I am not afraid of it. Meaning when it is time, I am at peace with it, I don't fear it… I just have such a deep peace knowing that this body will rest."[30]
Progress in reaction to Ingram's death
In March 2023, The Biden administration announced intentions to break up the network in charge of the United States' organ transplant system. The announcement is part of a greater effort to shorten wait times for organs, address racial inequities, and reduce the number of patients who die waiting for transplants. The administration is putting the United Network for Organ Sharing's role out to bid, seeking bidders willing and able to upgrade the outdated computer system that matches organs to patients. The administration also published a website that provides detailed, anonymized data on transplant wait lists, donors, and recipients, in attempt to create more transparency. Ingram's death has been included alongside media publications about these new initiatives, demonstrating that Ingram's advocacy, and people's outrage over Ingram's preventable death, greatly influenced change to the organ transplant system.[31][32][33]
Works
Books
Performed Poems
- "On Praying to God While Taking the SAT Exam", Brave New Voices, 2011[37]
- "Thirteen", Intermedia Arts, 2013[38]
- "Unsolicited Advice (after Jeanann Verlee)", CUPSI New York City, 2013[39]
- "Isms", NPS Boston, 2013[40]
- "Khaleesi", NPS Boston, 2013[41]
- "I Am Twenty-Two", NPS Oakland, 2014[42]
- "Raise Up", The Kennedy Center, 2014[6]
- "Monster", NPS Oakland, 2015[43]
- "We Are Full", NPS Oakland, 2015[44]
- "Live", NPS Oakland, 2015[45]
- "Suicide", Da Poetry Lounge Slam, 2015[46]
- "An Open Letter to My Depression", Buzzfeed, 2015[47]
- "Seven Commandments", Sofar NYC, 2016[48]
- "I Am 24", Brooklyn Slam, 2016[49]
- "Dear Discouraged", To Write Love On Her Arms, 2016[50]
- "Until the Stars Collapse", Art Share, 2018[51]
- "Here is What Loneliness / Love Tells You", Los Angeles Theatre Center, 2018[52]
- "For the Next Lover", Los Angeles Theatre Center, 2018[53]
- "On Days You Miss Your Ex", Los Angeles Theatre Center, 2018[54]
Awards & Titles
- Slam Champion, New York Knicks Poetry, 2011[55]
- Recipient of $10,000, New York Knicks Leader of Tomorrow Scholarship, 2011[56][57]
- Team Member at Urban Word, Second Place Team at Brave New Voices, 2011[58]
- Team Co-founder, SLAM! NYU, 2012[56]
- Slam Champion, SLAM! NYU Grand Slam, 2013[56]
- Team Member at Nuyorican, Grand Slam Team, 2013[40]
- Nominee, Pushcart Prize, 2014[59]
- Team Member at Da Poetry Lounge, Slam Team, 2015[60]
Interviews
- "Lupus: Poet Tonya Ingram on Navigating the Organ Donor System", So Life Wants You Dead Podcast[30]
- "Dating, Self-Care, and Chronic Illness", Just Break Up Podcast[61]
- "Another Black Girl Miracle", We Have Jobs We Swear Podcast[62]
- "The Journey and Intersections of Mental Health and Faith", Yas and Amen Podcast[63]
- "007", Keep Creating Podcast[64]
- "Tonya Ingram", Sexually Satisfied Woman Series[65]
References
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- "Being Women: Poetry and Imagery". The New York Times. 2018-08-17. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- Arms, To Write Love on Her (2019-11-25). "Love Can Happen Again, Especially the Kind You Give Yourself". TWLOHA. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
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- "Poetry in Color Live! | Discover Los Angeles". www.discoverlosangeles.com. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- Ingram, Tonya; Reid, Angelo; Bein, Melissa; Bertrand, Maddi; Ciesemier, Kendall (2019-06-11). "Opinion | 11,000 Americans Will Die Waiting for Transplants This Year". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
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- "House Hearing on Organ Transplant System | C-SPAN.org". www.c-span.org. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- Deng, Jireh (2023-01-23). "Tonya Ingram, an inspiring L.A. poet and 'lupus warrior,' died waiting for a kidney". Los Angeles Times. Retrieved 2023-01-24.
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- "More than 107k patients in the U.S. are waiting for an organ transplant. Every day, 33 patients will die while waiting". Twitter. Retrieved 2023-02-07.
- "Rep. Porter goes live with Tonya Ingram and Jennifer Erickson to discuss new measures to hold organ procurement organizations (OPOs) accountable". www.facebook.com. Retrieved 2023-02-07.
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- "Opinion | A 'Preventable Tragedy': Dying for Lack of an Organ Donor". The New York Times. 2023-02-03. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2023-02-07.
- "Trump's Organ-Donation Policy Fix Would Save Lives". Bloomberg.com. 2021-03-24. Retrieved 2023-02-07.
- "Matthew Cuban Hernandez on Instagram: "We're beginning to raise funds for our sister @tonyainstagram's home going. Please use the QR code in the post or message me directly for additional donation options."". Instagram. Retrieved 2023-01-24.
- "Matthew Cuban Hernandez on Instagram: "We will be holding services and a celebration of life for @tonyainstagram at @hwdforever". Instagram. Retrieved 2023-01-24.
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- "Troubled U.S. organ transplant system targeted for overhaul". Washington Post. ISSN 0190-8286. Retrieved 2023-04-06.
- Armour, Stephanie. "Biden Administration Launches Overhaul of Organ-Transplant System". WSJ. Retrieved 2023-04-06.
- Ingram, Tonya (2019-11-26). How To Survive Today: Poems, Prompts, and Affirmations for Those of Us Still Finding Our Way. Wild Awake Publishing LLC. ISBN 978-1-7334637-6-8.
- "Another Black Girl Miracle". Atomic Books. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- "Growl and Snare". www.goodreads.com. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- Team New York BNV 2011, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - Thirteen, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - Unsolicited Advice (after Jeanann Verlee), retrieved 2023-01-22
- Nuyorican Poets Cafe - Isms, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram & Venessa Marco - Khaleesi, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - I Am Twenty-Two, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - Monster, retrieved 2023-01-22
- National Poetry Slam 2015 Semi-Finals - Da Poetry Lounge, retrieved 2023-01-22
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- This Is What It Feels Like To Be Depressed, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - Seven Commandments | Sofar NYC, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - "I Am 24", retrieved 2023-01-22
- Dear Discouraged, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram at Art Share 1.19.18., retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - "Here is What Loneliness / Love Tells You" | Poetry from Dulzura, retrieved 2023-01-22
- Tonya Ingram - "For the Next Lover" ft. JP Saxe | Poetry from Dulzura, retrieved 2023-01-22
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- "Congratulations to Knicks Poetry Slam 2011 winners!". New York Photographer Blog. 2011-02-25. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- "With Tonya Ingram – Confluence". Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- "WNBA Names New York University Student as a Leader of Tomorrow". Diverse: Issues In Higher Education. 2011-05-24. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- urbanwordnyc. "Youth Development | Youth Poetry | Critical Literacy | Urban Word NYC". Urban Word. Retrieved 2023-01-22.
- Pushcart Prize XXXVIII : best of the small presses, 2014. Bill Henderson, Pushcart Press. Wainscott, N.Y. 2014. ISBN 978-1-888889-70-3. OCLC 829989392.
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- "Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties: Dating, Self-Care, and Chronic Illness: An Interview with Tonya Ingram on Apple Podcasts". Apple Podcasts. Retrieved 2023-01-23.
- "We Have Jobs We Swear: Another Black Girl Miracle with Tonya Ingram". wehavejobsweswear.libsyn.com. Retrieved 2023-01-23.
- "Yas and Amen Podcast: Ep.13: The Journey and Intersections of Mental Health and Faith w/ Tonya Ingram on Apple Podcasts". Apple Podcasts. Retrieved 2023-01-23.
- "Keep Creating: 007: Tonya Ingram on Apple Podcasts". Apple Podcasts. Retrieved 2023-01-23.
- Eva Blake interviews Tonya Ingram for the Sexually Satisfied Woman Series., retrieved 2023-01-23