Love the One You're With
"Love the One You're With" is a song by American folk rock musician Stephen Stills. It was released as the lead single from his debut self-titled studio album in November 1970. The song, inspired by a remark Stills heard from musician Billy Preston, became his biggest hit single, peaking at No. 14 on the Billboard Hot 100 in early 1971.[1] David Crosby and Graham Nash, Stills' fellow members of Crosby, Stills & Nash, provide background vocals on the song. The song was also recorded by other pop musicians, notably the Isley Brothers, The Meters, Bucks Fizz, Luther Vandross, Bob Seger and Richard Clapton.
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| Single by Stephen Stills | ||||
| from the album Stephen Stills | ||||
| B-side | "To a Flame" | |||
| Released | November 1970 | |||
| Genre | Folk rock | |||
| Length | 3:03 | |||
| Label | Atlantic | |||
| Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills | |||
| Producer(s) | Stephen Stills | |||
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Background
Stills wrote the song after being inspired by the tag line — "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" which was a frequent remark by musician Billy Preston. Stills explained in 1991: "This song has been very good to me. The title came from a party with Billy Preston. I asked him if I could pinch this line he had, and he said, 'Sure.' So I took the phrase and wrote a song around it. It's a good times song, just a bit of fun. My favorite part is the steel drums. I played them before a little bit but I just kept diddling around till I found the right notes."[2]
Cash Box said that Stills' "unique melodic work, the harmonies and a booming rhythm track make this a bright attraction for top forty as well as FM playlists."[3]
Charts
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Isley Brothers version
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| Single by the Isley Brothers | |
| B-side | "He's Got Your Love" |
| Released | 1971 |
| Length | 3:27 |
| Label | T-Neck |
| Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills |
| Producer(s) | The Isley Brothers |
Several acts have since recorded the song, most notably, in 1971, the Isley Brothers, whose unique gospel-driven rendering of the song sent it to the charts again reaching number three R&B and number 18 pop, giving the group their fifth US top 40 pop single.[16] It also reached number 10 US Cash Box. On the Canadian charts, their version reached No. 41.[17]
Bucks Fizz version
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| Single by Bucks Fizz | ||||
| B-side | "Too Hard" | |||
| Released | August 20, 1986 | |||
| Label | Polydor | |||
| Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills | |||
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UK pop group Bucks Fizz recorded the song for their eighteenth single in 1986. The single, released in August, was the follow-up to the group's comeback top ten hit "New Beginning (Mamba Seyra)" and was seen as a make or break release. Ultimately the song peaked at a low No.47 in the UK Singles Chart during a three-week run.[18] In a review, music magazine Number One said that the song lacked bass and sounded rather "tinny" but predicted that it would be a hit.[19] Member Mike Nolan puts the song's failure down to the decision to showcase other male member Bobby G as the lead singer. Their previous single had featured all the group equally and was a hit, while earlier flops had featured G on lead and this was a return to that format.[20] A promotional video for the song was filmed featuring the group performing the song in a blue-toned studio accompanied by backing musicians.[21] The single was released on 7" and 12" on Polydor Records with an extended mix on the latter, the B-side was a Bobby G composition, "Too Hard".[22] Also included on the 12" was an extended mix of earlier single "I Hear Talk". A second 12" single was released featuring a dance edit of "Love the One You're With", backed by another alternate mix of "I Hear Talk".[23]
Chantoozies version
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| Single by Chantoozies | |
| from the album Gild the Lily | |
| Released | February 1991 |
| Label | Mushroom |
| Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills |
Australian group Chantoozies released a version in February 1991. The song was the second single from the group's second studio album, Gild the Lily. The song peaked at number 21 on the Australian charts.[24]
Luther Vandross version
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| Single by Luther Vandross | ||||
| from the album Songs | ||||
| Released | November 14, 1994[26] | |||
| Length | 5:04 | |||
| Label | Epic | |||
| Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills | |||
| Producer(s) | Walter Afanasieff | |||
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American singer Luther Vandross released a version of the song on his ninth album, Songs (1994). It peaked within the top 30 of the US Billboard Hot R&B Singles chart, reached number 33 on the Billboard Hot Adult Contemporary Tracks chart, and earned Vandross a 1995 Grammy nomination for Best Male Pop Vocal Performance.[27]
Critical reception
M.R. Martinez from Cash Box described "Love the One You’re With" as "an optimistic celebration of love and music as Vandross is backed by an all-star choir that includes Lisa Fischer, Tawatha Gee, Jim Gilstrap and others."[28] Fell and Rufer from the Gavin Report wrote, "This 25-year-old Stephen Stills song was urbanized before by the Isley Brothers, but Luther turns it into a gospel hoot complete with the original Hammond organ effects from Stills' take. This is the song that garnered Vandross a Grammy nomination even before it was released as a single."[29] Pan-European magazine Music & Media commented, "Hailed the King of silky ballads, Luther also knows how to speed it up. In a New Orleans way, and challenged by a gospel group, this [...] cover shows him at his toughest."[30]
Other notable versions
- In 1971, Aretha Franklin included on her Aretha Live at Fillmore West live album.[36]
- Gino Soccio reached number 79 in Canada with a 1988 recording of the song.[37]
In culture
In 2012, the song was featured in Ridley Scott's sci-fi movie Prometheus. Idris Elba, playing Janek, sings a short phrase from the song after claiming his squeezebox once belonged to Stephen Stills.[38]
References
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- "CashBox Record Reviews" (PDF). Cash Box. December 5, 1970. p. 26. Retrieved December 9, 2021.
- "RPM Top Singles Chart" (PDF). RPM. RPM archives. Ottawa: Library and Archives Canada. January 30, 1971. OCLC 352936026. Retrieved September 3, 2016.
- "Item Display - RPM - Library and Archives Canada". Collectionscanada.gc.ca. February 6, 1971. Retrieved January 4, 2022.
- "Stephen Stills – Love the One You're With" (in Dutch). Single Top 100. Retrieved September 3, 2016.
- "Nederlandse Top 40 – Stephen Stills" (in Dutch). Dutch Top 40. Retrieved 4 June 2014.
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- "RECORD WORLD MAGAZINE: 1942 to 1982". worldradiohistory.com. Retrieved October 25, 2020.
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- Whitburn, Joel (2004). Top R&B/Hip-Hop Singles: 1942-2004. Record Research. p. 278.
- "RPM Top 100 Singles - August 21, 1971" (PDF).
- Chart Stats - Bucks Fizz - Love The One You're With
- Number One, Single reviews, August 26, 1986
- The Bucks Fizz Story, Glassbeach Media DVD. October 2010
- Raffem. 1986 - Love the One You're With
- Raffem. "Love the One You're With" single
- "Love the One You're With" Special 12" edition
- "australian-charts.com > Chantoozies in Australian Charts". Hung Medien. Retrieved February 9, 2017.
- "Chantoozies – Love the One You're With". ARIA Top 50 Singles. Retrieved 3 December 2017.
- "Single Releases". Music Week. November 12, 1994. p. 23.
- Whitburn, Joel (2004). Top R&B/Hip-Hop Singles: 1942-2004. Record Research. p. 597.
- Martinez, M.R. (October 8, 1994). "Urban — Reviews: Pick of the Week" (PDF). Cash Box. Retrieved March 6, 2022.
- Fell, Ron; Rufer, Diane (March 10, 1995). "Gavin A/C: New Releases" (PDF). Gavin Report. p. 26. Retrieved January 20, 2023.
- "New Releases: Singles" (PDF). Music & Media. December 10, 1994. p. 9. Retrieved March 16, 2021.
- "The ARIA Australian Top 100 Singles Chart – Week Ending 12 Mar 1995". ARIA. Retrieved February 9, 2017 – via Imgur.
- "RPM Top 100 Singles". RPM. May 1, 1995 – via Library and Archives Canada.
- "Official Scottish Singles Sales Chart Top 100 27 November 1994 - 03 December 1994". Official Charts Company. Retrieved March 16, 2021.
- "Official Charts > Luther Vandross". The Official UK Charts Company. Retrieved February 9, 2017.
- Luther Vandross - Singles Chart history.Billboard.com
- "www.allmusic.com". allmusic.com. Retrieved February 15, 2023.
- "RPM Top 100 Singles - August 27, 1988" (PDF).
- Ives, Brian (June 11, 2012). "'Prometheus' Reveals Stephen Stills' 'Love The One You're With' Still A Hit In 2093". WCBS-FM. Archived from the original on May 18, 2015. Retrieved September 22, 2013.



